To my sister who may be hurting from the ending of a relationship/situationship...Let the hurt happen! When my relationship ended, I found myself constantly trying to mask the pain I was feeling. For some reason, I thought that not showing my pain any attention would somehow erase it. I looked for happiness in other guys and anything else that could offer me temporary contentment. I thought that this was the proper way to "heal myself". I was nothing short of WRONG! Trying to